FOG BEFORE BEAUTIFUL RAIN

                  FOG BEFORE BEAUTIFUL RAIN

                

         

    I’ve seen many problems, not just mine but others too. Some are struggling with disabilities, some trying to overcome financial troubles and some trying to mature early to understand their parent’s quarrels. In my trouble d days, either my diary let me shed some tears on it or I would smile saying it’s just another day. Like every morning, I opened my balcony’s sliding door to take a look at beautiful reddish orange sky but today I was irritated to find fog covering the picturesque view. I tried very hard to look through and enjoy the blur view. The blur view only added to my dismay. I waited for 10mins then 20mins for sky to get clear. However, it only reminded me of yesterday’s picturesque view. As I was turning back to get back to my daily routine, I felt water drip on my cheek. And there was RAIN! Forgetting everything, I started to enjoy the rain. '

It thought me something which is similar to our life’s situation:

“Problem is like a fog which a cheerless warning before rain.

Just like we forget it & enjoy the rain.

Forget the problem & learn to enjoy its beautiful lessons.”

        Isn’t it a beautiful lesson? So, next time when you look at your broken relationships, try to look at the lesson it’s trying to teach you as in the end, it’s just a warning before the start of a beautiful relationship.

        Sometimes we may take failures to our heart but that’s OK as we are humans & we can’t brave everything at once. Next time when you’re sad, remember this-

“Days are just like our emotions,

Call it twins.

Both can’t be forced to stay & are meant to change.

If it’s not good today,

Smile, as it’s going to pass anyway.”

Who is more courageous?

A person who has courage to cry in front others 

OR someone who keeps their problems to themselves? 

I vote for the latter. 

I know a guy in my college who is always in verge of helping others either listening their troubles or lending them shoulder to cry on. In one of our rarest of rarest talk, he had said people who cry and speak about their problems are more courageous. I didn’t reply that. 

But later, I went back to that moment millions of times in my mind with a better answer to give him. 

I differ to agree with him every time.  

Why shouldn’t I? 

         Anyone can cry in front of the other but it’s hard to hold back tears when you badly want to. Everyone has their own reasons to hide tears. Some don’t want to depress the other and some want to handle it on their own. You don’t agree with me? OK, than give me one reason why I shouldn’t call the latter more courageous? 

          A person who openly talk about their problems and cry on others shoulders, only waste others time. They never take your advice nor are they going to stop crying after you assure everything will be OK. Yeah, they do have courage to make others unnecessarily depress. 

Like always, today also I would admit that we should clear our own mess just like we don’t ask others to wash our shit until you are completely handicapped. 

If only, I could tell him this in person.

ADDICTION..!

 

In simple words, an addiction to something is a very strong desire or need for it. I admit that I’m addicted. Yes, you read it right.

I’m addicted to listening music in full volume. After I ruined 3^rd headphone in 4months, I wasn’t allowed to buy new one (My bad!). To be frank, I felt sick without it. It was as if a singer having bad throat for months, a footballer with a fractured leg, only karaoke playlist—to describe it best- “A drug addict without drug!”It sounds dramatic but those 2 months without headphones were the same.

Today, I brought a new headphone. The sound echoing in my ears felt like I’m reborn. I salute those who could get away from any sort of addiction because doing a project is easy but to feel what they feel is difficult. It’s not like an addict isn’t aware of his/ her addiction’s CONS but needs immense will power and true support to remove addiction completely.

Let it be facebook, food, video games or any other addiction, remember to admit that you have a problem and figure out a solution. After all,there is no harm in admitting your problem. So, next time when you come across an addict try to understand him/her by keeping yourself in their shoes (Not literally!).

Gmail VIDEO call..!!

                                VIDEO CALLING..!!


I love texting as It's easiest and fastest. But actully it comes with many disadvantages like you can't see the expressions Or reaction of receiver. Putting some well-known EMOTICONS, they easily fool us. So, why not video call them while checking your MAILS?? 

 

Here’s what you’ll need to get started with gmail video call:

• Download the voice and video chat plug-in, quit all open browser windows, and install the plug-in.
• Sign in to Gmail, iGoogle or orkut.
• In your chat list, select the contact you want to call. If they have a camera icon next to their name, you can make a voice or video call to them; just click Video & more.

  BEST PART- It's free. You and your Friend just need a camera in PC or Laptop.



So, why not give it a try?? Keep texting for playing pranks with close ones.
I had a great time talking to my school friend whom I could never meet after passing out from school. Try it, if you are still unaware of such feature in Gmail And if you have tried it before than do tell me about to first taste of VIDEO CALLING.

You and Me..

The moment I think of you,
I wanna talk to you,
But I don't talk to you.

When I'm sad,
I curse not being with you,
But i don't make efforts to be with you.

I may cry inside missing you,
But won't tell you.

I may kill anyone who hurts you,
But somewhere I would be the one who
would be hurting you the most.

I may babble everyday about my feelings for you,
But won't admit it to you.

I love to tease you like its a daily routine,
But when you do the same,
I look at you with my mouth agape.

When I'm happy,
I give you it's credit,
But its same when I cry.

All I wanna say is,
No matter how I'm or how I'll be,
I would be the same MALINI of yours..

WHERE DO YOU FIND?

             Not in Google or Wikipedia, than where do you find repose? Probably not in a room full of money, not in the most expensive car, and not even in luxurious home. So, where do you find it? For me, sitting alone in my terrace looking at moon with headphone on makes me feel at repose.

             

            When you hear your parents argue, fights with partner, tired of workload, depressed of daily setback, you surely not find repose in some luxurious thing. Instead some find it in someone’s shoulder, parent’s arms, silent night, and an empty room, your favourite pillow to cry on and like me hearing music with full volume..! Funnily, some find it in very unusual place i.e. WASHROOM too. Isn’t it? I’m not giving some silly speeches on happiness but talking about the calmness that you feel when everything seems falling down.

               

            We, many a times forget to take notice of these small things and curse the almighty for leaving us with no one. So, what you don’t have someone to share your emotions with? Only they can’t make you feel good, right? Instead be happy that you don’t have anyone as if they can be reason behind your smile than they can also be reason behind your sorrow. Am I wrong? Come on, smile. Look at those trees under whom you found sleep, those nights when it hugged you with its cold breeze, those empty rooms where you cried and it didn’t laughed back, when you were traveling alone, your favourite singer sang for you, when you wanted to take your frustration out, your book without any complain let you ruin it. They surely don’t have voice like we humans do but think it as a positive sign. They won’t hurt you by saying what, you don’t want to hear. Feeling bored after reading this? Then you can always turn back to your favourite- “REPOSE STUFFS.”

            

              I’m dedicating this song for you...Have a great time hearing this.

PERFECT SIBLINGS..!

A day for which every sister eagerly await throughout the year to cash on it & every brother wait for the cheapest but the most precious RAKHI which their sisters tie. RAKSHABANDHAN, one of the most celebrated festivals in India is the day to mark the love between siblings. This year it is coming on 2^nd of august but I’m not too excited about it. It isn’t because I don’t like it but the reason is I lost the connection with this festival. It’s nothing related to bro. We are like Best friends who hurt, love, fight, irritate and support each other. I can always turn to my bro whenever I feel I’m left with nothing but PAIN. He is also one of those people with whom I can talk hours without getting bored or with a fear of boring them. Though he may not know my friends & foes by face but can easily tell you where they fit in my life. PERFECT SIBLINGS, we are..! Touch wood!

The reason for writing this today is related to something which happened in today’s 8:22am Panvel train. I saw the same love and care in eyes of a poor young boy who was busy tying his little sister’s hair, perfectly. It was as if he is doing that for years without any complain.

It remembered me of those days when after fight, my bro would break the silence first to talk to his stubborn & egoistic sister; those days when bro would get chocolates to share it with me & in return I would give him it’s empty rapper with a big mischievous smile & he never complained; standing like a heavy armour in front of me when mom-dad would come to hit me for my mistakes. I felt as if each & every moment came alive in front of my eyes.  I understood why I used to wait for bro to wake up morning early on RAKSHBANDHAN, it wasn’t for the gift but to tie own made rakhi. That Rakhi which was not just a thread but that sibling’s love which is UNCONDITIONAL..!! I’m going to make one again after many years for my BESTEST BRO IN THE WORLD..!!

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