Should I ask for you?

“Sadness is something which is not already written in destiny but something we ask for and nurture it.” It’s my saying and what else should I say about it. I mean, when we have choice to be happy why do we cry about everything?!

Everyone face one or the another problem in life. It’s just not you who suffer. Take today’s newspaper and try to read crime in city column instead page3. You’ll find so many tragic stories in their stories. Even a criminal can make you weep with their past life. True, there is sadness in each and every part of this world. But who says we have to let it control our mind and soul? You only decide whether you want happiness or sadness in life. If you are depressed, ask yourself who ask for it. ‘You did’ is what going to echo back to you. If you broke up with your sweetheart, if parents are fighting, if you don’t like the best girl in college, you cry! Why?! Instead laugh louder at this silly turn in life. And be an example to yourself who knows happiness is way of living and not a destiny’s puppet.

Mark my personal words- “Many said life is not an easy ride and comes with many hurdles but they forgot we have rear view to look at and learn from.”

So, why cry about every little things and have anti-depressant! Smile at every little moments and hurdles. Then see, how the biggest problem in your life will seem a Lilliput.

Gives MORE..

Recently, I met an old friend in one of the gatherings. I had lost touch with him long back so, i was completely clueless about this glum expression. When asked about it he said," relationships are too much too handle! It bloody sucks the whole out of you to give nothing but pain!"
Those words were more than enough to understand it's just another terrible break-up. We spoke over this for hours only for me to hear this words out of his mouth at the end- I WOULD NEVER FALL IN LOVE AGAIN!
It didn't get it!   
Why are we so scared and doubtful?
If not that! We surely are stuck between whether I or Whether I don't!
Relationship is not something we should be scared or be worried about. It's not something to waste time on wondering whether it's right, whether it'll work, will history repeat itself, do i really love that person, does he and blah and unlimited blahhhhh..
Think over this-

My thoughts-
"Relationship gives more than it takes..
If it works, it gives you the most beautiful feeling,
And if doesn't work, it gives world another GREAT PHILOSOPHER."

Both the ways, we benefit! So, why waste thinking over all those nuisance? Enjoy life as it comes.

DON'T give up..!

Who doesn’t know me, in short introduction I not only write blogs, I also write stories. One of my short love stories have given my friends dreamy days and desire to read again & again. Those aren’t my self-made words. It was enough to encourage me to write what I always wanted to- A murder mystery. I started it. 5...7...10...13...16...20 pages was reached and yet my mystery was unsolved.

One day, while working on a project, my friend happens to read it and kept asking who the killer is! All his guesses were wrong. Whole scenario made me giggle & wonder how the final draft would look like. Next day, I got busy with college events then some or the other work consumed my weeks. Months passed but mystery remained unsolved in that 20 page word document. I either felt too lazy or worthless to write ahead though I never really got over the story.

Today my murder mystery- A CONCERT NIGHT is completed and well-appreciated by others. Only one thing inspired me to complete it, which was THE LOVE FOR WRITING. I don’t know if I’m born to be an author or not but I know I can’t go wrong in doing what I love to do.

I’m sure you might have gone through such phase in life. Remember this-

“Just don’t give up

Trying to do what you

Really want to do where

There is love and inspiration;

I don’t think you can go wrong."  

So, what are you waiting for? Wipe the dust off your guitar & compose a song on a tune you’ve been humming lately; take a paper & draw the cartoon strip which you always imagined & laughed at; stop looking at dance classes ads, call them & JOIN NOW!

Until you try you’ll never know, whether it was a good decision or not. Yeah, you may be disappointed if you fail but you are doomed if you don’t try.

Getting Emotional..

     "I never cried while watching movie." I said umpteenth time till date. It's a PURE LIE. I cried at many occasions. When someone parts away, a strong emotional dialogue, some favorite character dies, when it resemble my life. Many occasions...
       Luckily, no one saw that. Whenever I saw a movie alone having a emotional storyline, I would end up sobbing like a new born. And when I had a company, I either made mockery of that scene or smartly wiped my tears saying something went inside my eyes. I know, it's silly! But can't help it.
Many scenes in movie resembles with our life, our fears and our pains. I still remember a scene in
which male lead's father dies on Monday due to some illness. Everyone try to contact the male lead who was away in Paris. On Saturday, He got the news. Funeral rituals were done. He couldn't even had a last glimpse of his father. I cried terribly in that scene. I couldn't help but think what if it happens to me. I don't know why we do this but it's surely a thin line between reel and real life.
Do you remember any scene which made you cry? Share it with me. I would love to hear that.