There Is Another Door..!

          I was just reading a newspaper, when a topic caught my attention. A columnist wrote about the great women in world. And when we talk about great women, how can Helen Keller be any far, Right?

HELEN KELLER

         Helen Keller is an institution of inspiration in herself who though having many physical disabilities achieved so much in life. And we, being physically stable are mentally unstable.  

         God has given many of us everything but we still have qualms about something or the other. If we fail, we get depressed; relationship doesn’t work out, we start counting faults; if we can’t afford iPhone, we touch the heights of cursing almighty for making us born in middle class family; there is always something or the other to cry about.

Just like Helen Keller once said-

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens;

But often we look so long at the closed door

That we do not see the one which has opened for us.”

So, I’ve made a point of not staring at the closed door (past) & look around for that another opened door. This isn’t a one day promise & nor yours should be. Because if today someone breaks your heart, there is someone perfect waiting for you and if you don’t get what you want; you’ll get something much better later. 

Do think over it & leave a comment.

FOG BEFORE BEAUTIFUL RAIN

                  FOG BEFORE BEAUTIFUL RAIN

                

         

    I’ve seen many problems, not just mine but others too. Some are struggling with disabilities, some trying to overcome financial troubles and some trying to mature early to understand their parent’s quarrels. In my trouble d days, either my diary let me shed some tears on it or I would smile saying it’s just another day. Like every morning, I opened my balcony’s sliding door to take a look at beautiful reddish orange sky but today I was irritated to find fog covering the picturesque view. I tried very hard to look through and enjoy the blur view. The blur view only added to my dismay. I waited for 10mins then 20mins for sky to get clear. However, it only reminded me of yesterday’s picturesque view. As I was turning back to get back to my daily routine, I felt water drip on my cheek. And there was RAIN! Forgetting everything, I started to enjoy the rain. '

It thought me something which is similar to our life’s situation:

“Problem is like a fog which a cheerless warning before rain.

Just like we forget it & enjoy the rain.

Forget the problem & learn to enjoy its beautiful lessons.”

        Isn’t it a beautiful lesson? So, next time when you look at your broken relationships, try to look at the lesson it’s trying to teach you as in the end, it’s just a warning before the start of a beautiful relationship.

        Sometimes we may take failures to our heart but that’s OK as we are humans & we can’t brave everything at once. Next time when you’re sad, remember this-

“Days are just like our emotions,

Call it twins.

Both can’t be forced to stay & are meant to change.

If it’s not good today,

Smile, as it’s going to pass anyway.”

Who is more courageous?

A person who has courage to cry in front others 

OR someone who keeps their problems to themselves? 

I vote for the latter. 

I know a guy in my college who is always in verge of helping others either listening their troubles or lending them shoulder to cry on. In one of our rarest of rarest talk, he had said people who cry and speak about their problems are more courageous. I didn’t reply that. 

But later, I went back to that moment millions of times in my mind with a better answer to give him. 

I differ to agree with him every time.  

Why shouldn’t I? 

         Anyone can cry in front of the other but it’s hard to hold back tears when you badly want to. Everyone has their own reasons to hide tears. Some don’t want to depress the other and some want to handle it on their own. You don’t agree with me? OK, than give me one reason why I shouldn’t call the latter more courageous? 

          A person who openly talk about their problems and cry on others shoulders, only waste others time. They never take your advice nor are they going to stop crying after you assure everything will be OK. Yeah, they do have courage to make others unnecessarily depress. 

Like always, today also I would admit that we should clear our own mess just like we don’t ask others to wash our shit until you are completely handicapped. 

If only, I could tell him this in person.

ADDICTION..!

 

In simple words, an addiction to something is a very strong desire or need for it. I admit that I’m addicted. Yes, you read it right.

I’m addicted to listening music in full volume. After I ruined 3^rd headphone in 4months, I wasn’t allowed to buy new one (My bad!). To be frank, I felt sick without it. It was as if a singer having bad throat for months, a footballer with a fractured leg, only karaoke playlist—to describe it best- “A drug addict without drug!”It sounds dramatic but those 2 months without headphones were the same.

Today, I brought a new headphone. The sound echoing in my ears felt like I’m reborn. I salute those who could get away from any sort of addiction because doing a project is easy but to feel what they feel is difficult. It’s not like an addict isn’t aware of his/ her addiction’s CONS but needs immense will power and true support to remove addiction completely.

Let it be facebook, food, video games or any other addiction, remember to admit that you have a problem and figure out a solution. After all,there is no harm in admitting your problem. So, next time when you come across an addict try to understand him/her by keeping yourself in their shoes (Not literally!).